A Divorce Blessing Ceremony

A marriage can end for a variety of reasons and in more then one way. A marriage can end on bad terms or good, due to some betrayal or simply because you fell apart. But regardless of the reason a divorce can be a troublesome ordeal, even more so if your marriage ended on bad terms.

So using a divorce blessing ceremony to help yourself recover is a great idea. You may think a ceremony sounds weird for a divorce, but it is not as uncommon as you think. Ceremonies are often used to celebrate a large change in ones life, and a divorce is a pretty big change.

However a lot of people go into these ceremonies with the wrong mind set. They go into them filled with anger and bitterness, feeling they are finally free of the evil villain. They also commit questionable acts at such ceremonies, such as burning their marriage certificate.

While burning your marriage certificate, returning rings, or reversing vows may all sound like great ideas that can help you get past your divorce, they actually do the opposite. By doing these actions filled with anger over what happened, they instead hold you back instead of helping you move forward.

Negativity lingers in this world and it does effect you on a subconscious level. Instead of a divorce blessing ceremony helping you move forward, you are using it as a cesspool for your own negative feelings, which just further increases said negative feelings.

You want to get rid of all that negativity, you want to shed off that part of your life for the most part, and you want to start anew without any chains binding you. But to do that you also have to accept what has happened and be ok with it. This is where many people deceive themselves.

They pretend that they are ok with what has happened, and that they have accepted it but in reality they have not, and this is why they are so mad. To get the most out of your ceremony you want to take a while and reflect on what happened. Reflect on the good times and the bad times, and why your marriage failed in the first place.

Once you have accepted it all as one complete package, you can move on and be ok with what happened. By accepting the good and the bad, and that you may have been at fault along with your spouse, you are freeing yourself of all those negative emotions that have been holding you down.

With all that negativity gone and locked away along with that period of your life, you can finally move forward with your life and find happiness. As long as you have all that pent up anger and bitterness, you can not move forward.

A divorce blessing ceremony can be a great way to shed all that negativity as long as you go into it with the right mind set. If you go into it with the wrong mind set it will do nothing but further keep you down, and you do not want that to happen.

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