Adultery Destroys Marriages
by Terry MacDonald
In an internet article it is stated that 41 per cent of women in Canada live alone. The article also adds in Canada "more than one-third of marriages will end in divorce before the couples' 30th anniversary and that 43 per cent of women will see their income decrease substantially - including their retirement funds." Nowadays, getting a Canadian divorce is not a hard or complex procedure. If you want to obtain a divorce in Canada, all you have to do is to establish before the court that your marriage has broken down irretrievably.
Financial difficulties are not uncommon to most of the families. However, problems arise when one spouse puts family in a financial crisis in the family due to his or her irresponsible behaviors and the other one is forced to share the impact of the crisis. For example, if a person has problems with obsessive spending or overspending, it can make much havoc in the financial situation of the family. Actually, many people are forced to file for divorce after being fed up with the over expenditure nature of their spouses.
If you do have children, try to have an open talk with them. Remember that they also have enormous emotional stress and confusion due to their parents' divorce. You should make them understand that divorce does not mean that they will lose one of their parents. The parent who gets the custody of children can explain to them that the leaving parent still loves them and will continue to take care of them. If you are the parent who leaves home, you should take all the possible measures to ensure your children that your relationship with them will never change, whatever happens.
Divorce is one of the most painful periods that can happen in a person's life. After divorce you may feel sad, angry, confused, and irritated. However, if you want to move on your life and to explore new opportunities, it is very necessary to subdue your negative feelings and take a positive attitude toward life. You should consider divorce not as an end, but as the beginning of a new chapter in your life.
Legally, adultery can be defined as consensual or voluntary sexual intercourse between two individuals who are not married to each other. It should also be noted that artificial insemination without the knowledge of spouse also comes under the category of adultery. If you want to get divorce in Canada on the basis of your spouse's adultery, you would have to prove it before a court. Hence, most spouses prefer to seek Canadian divorce citing separation as the ground for divorce.
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